Planning my own Wedding?

hey so planning my own wedding is harder then i thought! Me and my wife to be are hard rock lovers and don't really want a classic wedding because that sucks more then, sucking itself! We don't want a goth wedding but something that fits our personality. We love the 80's but are all for hard-rock, rock, industrial and alternative of this era.... so need advice on decor, music, colors, etc.... help anyone? have till November...